Here is my guide to creating attraction. There is a bunch of other stuff that I do that I am trying to quantify and break down, this is a good start though. You’ll have to wait….
Creating attraction
There are numerous ways in which you can create attraction. The following are some of the best, most powerful ways :
Method one – Conversational jujitsu. Using this method you pretend not to hear what she is saying and misinterpret it in a sexual way, as in the following example :PUA : Hey can you tell me where the nearest hairdressers is?Her : Oh yeah, it’s just up there, turn left at the bank. PUA : OK , just up there…PAUSE..Did you say you wanted to watch me wank? I’ve only just met you, my god you are forward…This is a rather extreme, however it’s useful because it illustrates the technique. Using this kind of sexual misinterpretation is great because :
(i) You can use it at ANY point in the conversation e.g after opening, rapport stage etc etc.
(ii) It shows great confidence, and if delivered correctly is very funny – 2 ideal ingredients you want to demonstrate to a girl.
(iii) It immediately cuts through the bullshit and sets the tone of the conversation as sexual. Remember, a degree of sexual tension is a MUST in interacting with girls. We all have boring, anodyne conversations all day long : this is different and makes you stand out.
(iv) It shows you are sexually confident and direct. Again this is unusual and attractive. Ask as many attractive women as you can if they would appreciate being approached by an attractive guy who is direct and humourous.This technique is a way of creating sexual tension and quickly changing the nature of the interaction and getting you talking as a man and woman who may be interested in sex. Use it sparingly as overuse will reduce it’s effectiveness. It’s difficult to put an exact figure on how many times you should do this but in a 3 minute number close in the daytime, once should be enough. Try and use it directly after the opener as it’s a great way of flipping the attraction switches.
Another conversational method is to use ANY hook to turn the conversation onto a sexual / dating plane. You can use literally ANYTHING to do this, as with the example below :
PUA : So where you from?
HB : I’m from Latvia
PUA : Latvia – oh yeah, cool. I heard about that place…I read an article about it actually. Yeah, it said that the girls from Latvia are all super hot…(IRONICALLY) – I couldn’t comment , of course…PAUSE…And it also said they all seem to have a special interest in (describe yourself) e.g 5”6 guys who wear brown courdroy pants and pink socks and matching pink underwear. PAUSE…How strange. Are you aware of this phenomenon?Your lucky day eh?
Again, use this sparingly as you do not want to appear to be a clown by using too much humour. This method is best used shortly after the opener.